Should You Do a First Look on Your Wedding Day?
As a Los Angeles wedding photographer, one of the most common questions I get from couples is: “Should we do a first look?” While there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, I want to share why a first look might be the best decision you make for your wedding day—especially if you care about maximizing your photography time and creating a relaxed, joyful timeline.
What Is a First Look?
A first look is a private moment where the couple sees each other before the ceremony. It’s intimate, emotional, and often one of the most memorable parts of the day. Instead of waiting until you walk down the aisle, you get to share this moment in a quiet space—just the two of you (and your photographer).
Why a First Look Can Be a Game-Changer
- More Time for Photos: Doing a first look opens up the entire pre-ceremony window for portraits. That means we can capture couple shots, bridal party photos, and even family formals before guests arrive.
- Less Stress, More Joy: With photos out of the way early, you won’t feel rushed after the ceremony. You’ll actually get to enjoy cocktail hour and mingle with guests instead of disappearing for an hour of photos.
- Authentic Emotions: The first look is often more emotional than the ceremony itself. It’s a chance to connect, breathe, and soak in the moment without hundreds of eyes watching.
- Better Light, Better Photos: In Los Angeles, natural light is everything. A first look allows us to shoot during the best lighting conditions—especially if your ceremony is later in the day.
Sources: Gasparian FOTO
But What If You Want to Keep It Traditional?
If you’ve always dreamed of that aisle moment, that’s totally valid. Some couples choose to skip the first look to preserve tradition—and that’s okay. Just know that it may compress your timeline and limit your photo opportunities before sunset, especially during fall and winter weddings.
Final Thoughts
As a Los Angeles wedding photographer, I’ve seen firsthand how a first look can transform the flow of the day. It’s not just about logistics—it’s about creating space for connection, calm, and beautiful imagery. If you’re on the fence, let’s talk through your timeline and see what works best for your vision.
Want to see how a first look plays out in real weddings? Check out our sample galleries for inspiration.































